Every morning at 07:30 I have been posting the first paragraph of soul whispers describing the process of soul love here for 5 years. Many loyal subscribers start each new day by reading these insightful texts. I will keep writing them as long as I feel the inner drive and calling to do so. Sometimes there was doubt in me for a while, but in retrospect it then turned out that I was just continuing on another level.
Often, reading someone else's story is also very enlightening. In 2012, I brought
Dance of reunion out. This was my second book on twin soul love in which I not only share my personal experience that is perceived by others as a poignant and gripping story, but also share important scripts and insights that are very supportive if you are in a similar process.
I have edited and compiled my contribution to the first book. This is available as
an online version, to which you will continue to have unlimited access for as long as this website exists and this can be obtained as
E-book. For now, the E-book can only be ordered via E-mail. Also, the
three most impressive and insightful articles that I have written, bundled in an E-book.
And then last but not least, there is also an option to order a Soul Whisper tailored to you personally and your soul love. This way, you can have a
Personal Soul Whisper order. This is a short and concise version based on your request for help. Or you can order a
Miniscript order, a typed A4 sheet in font size 12 describing in more detail where you are now. The third option is a
Soul Icon Greeting Card where you receive a beautiful card in the mail with a message that is completely tailored to you.
"Not having yet fulfilled your deepest heart's desire, while love is so intensely palpable, can prompt thoughts and feelings that are essentially fill-ins and assumptions of possible explanations of why things are turning out the way they are, because your essential other is not giving you unambiguous or only half-answers, perhaps even excuses so that he/she does not have to really expose himself/herself.
The crux is that the essential other who is unavailable for the time being often does not know himself/herself why he/she is exhibiting certain behaviour or perhaps even makes statements that feel as if they have been souffled and cannot really be retrieved from memories later. Both components are under a powerful direction that monitors the process to the hilt. You think the only valid information you get is that which you perceive sensually, that which you see and hear. But therein lies precisely the clue, the only valid information can be found within yourself, when you can keep connecting with what you know deep inside.
The trap for many is believing in someone's potential that never, ever needs to become a reality. Believing in something that could be, but is not there viewed from an emptiness, a need, even invites you to get stuck in destructive forms of relationships or making someone into something that is projected from within yourself onto a potential candidate. None of this applies to the connection you feel. Connecting with your inner knowing is different from connecting with false hope.
Being unavailable for the time being has nothing to do with emotional incapacity or insensitivity or cruelty. It simply comes down to the fact that no steps in the process can be skipped. You can neither speed up anything nor slow down anything and no one is disadvantaged. You are not harmed even when you see the behaviour of your essential other as negation. Love cannot be denied, but it can be disguised by a development that is still allowed or even required to go through in order to embody the energy of connection and whose purpose, for now, is to complete all the loose ends that often involve others. Love watches over everyone involved, consciously or not. Therefore, learn to discern very carefully what you are dealing with before mentally or emotionally naming someone as your soul-love. This knowing does not come from your thoughts or feelings, it is rooted in your origins and makes itself known through experiences that you cannot logically explain, but duly produce profound effects, perhaps painful, because of what you may leave behind in yourself, but all the while transforming into something beautiful."
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