Twin souls, who doesn't know this phenomenon? Maybe you have experienced it in person or you have come across a story on the internet, maybe you are even the listening ear for a loved one who is going through a violent development in love. The moment you are ready to fully admit your authentic self and are willing to replace the undermining illusions about yourself and the whole world with the wisdom in your own heart, then the dance begins. The dance of return, the path that connects your head with your heart.
There is no turning back. It is the most profound love you will ever experience, because you are in fact making the journey back inside to yourself, and in doing so you are going through old wounds, pains, desires and expectations. Not to banish these energies, but to embrace everything within yourself and be humble and full of surrender in life. You make space to be yourself!
The moment you think you are torn and dead tired and really can't take it any longer, your old self dies. You might die a hundred times..... You may fully allow this, because you are freed from your own self-limiting beliefs, even if it doesn't seem that way. It is the path back to self-love, a process that invites you to replace everything you thought you were and thought you needed with a surrender to life itself and, respectively, to the most fulfilling form of love. An infinite love that will be carried with you for the rest of your life, crossing even the boundaries of life and death. A process through which you can never again deny yourself and when that point is reached, not from willpower, but deeply anchored in your own feelings, you relieve the other of its function and may integrate the essence.
The connection that exposes everything in you cannot be framed within the common concepts and definitions of love. You would intellectually want to choose against it, but you will find that this transcends all willpower, even though it seems so impossible. After all, you cannot resist it. You are guided back to your authentic core through all layers of yourself, through an interaction many might even ask: is this love? Should you be one of the readers who finds yourself in a similar situation, one that you can hardly talk to anyone about, because you can only understand it if you experience it yourself, I hope this blog will make you feel that you are no longer alone in this rollercoaster of feelings and experiences and that you can draw strength and insight from it! Dance because you are safe. Trust that life will guide you through this difficult phase to the treasure hidden within you! Just pull it out at your own pace and write your own legend!