When you meet your twin soul, everything in your life changes. You are confronted with old wounds and fears within yourself. The encounter helps you heal the patterns that keep you far away from your true core, and so begins the intense process of attraction and repulsion in which you feel intense love at the same time as tremendous tearing. Violent and intense things happen during this phase, but the events lead to one or more climaxes, where you feel compelled to close the door. Often this happens from your ego, because your boundary has been crossed or because the fear is so great that you prefer to distance yourself for a while.

The biggest challenge you face when you meet your twin soul is the conflict between head and heart. Many of us have been taught that what you see with your own eyes is the truth and that is precisely not the case with twin soul love. At least certainly not during that first important phase of attraction and repulsion.

This is a necessary stage, because first a lot of prejudices in ourselves have to be overcome and therefore the time is not yet ripe to connect with each other. First, the stage of unconditional love and acceptance of yourself and your twin soul must be reached. You don't know where this intense love comes from. You think it's just lust, but where does that inner knowing come from? You know your life has changed forever, so you run away. You try to deny it.

When my book 'Dans des Weerziens' was published in 2012, a book about a twin soul encounter and the dynamics involved, I naturally knew that I was exposing myself very much and that this would trigger the necessary reactions. However, I consciously chose to be vulnerable and share my deepest experiences, because only if I dared to send everything out through my heart would it be supportive.

More and more, I began to realise the depth of its impact. I had not dared to believe that sharing my story triggered so much recognition and initiated such a huge reaction flow. Many people appeared to feel the need to share their own intense experiences, which they had not yet been able to place. They found the courage to speak about it and express the emotions that were previously hidden away from shame. By reading my story, they had now gained clarity regarding the previously unexplained experiences related to meeting your twin soul, so shame was allowed to give way to understanding and acceptance.

Dans des Weerziens addressed a topic that is still hugely alive today. The book provided a piece of information that many people draw support and strength from. So many events had taken place and so many developments were taking place that added a deeper meaning to the whole phenomenon, that I decided to write Dans des Weerziens. It was the only way I could share these insights and make sure they were integrated. This is how Dans des Weerziens was born and how I was able to accompany many people during this very intense process of consciousness expansion and healing.