Developments within the connection
It really won't escape your notice anymore that we are being taken along in a development that invites you to let go of the former conclusions you have drawn for yourself as a result of your life experiences, so that you don't limit yourself in the possibilities that are brought on your path. Opportunities that you may sometimes be a little suspicious of, but which are so worthwhile to lead you to more trust and surrender. There is so much going on, so much promise in the air. Maybe I should say potentially, because at the word promise you might start doubting whether this isn't just a big illusion and whether it will ever be fulfilled. You make it come true, exactly as you are now, because you possess the power to enter the great unknown, no matter what has happened. After all, you can always fall back on yourself and the love that has manifested in you.
We have been through a lot in our lives, each in our own way within our own story, but it all comes down to allowing more of your true self and believing in love. To know that she is the strongest force on earth, the strongest energy in the entire universe. She is patient, more patient than any other energy. She lets you walk your path, she will always keep in touch with you on some level, whispering to you until you can make her voice resonate as the most distinguished. When love becomes greater than the fear that hinders her, then you can expect the unexpected. Then you will be introduced to the magic of life.
If you have been disappointed more than once, have seen your desires and hopes go up in smoke more than once, and have been forced to let go of things that you were still strongly connected to emotionally, then you have gone really deep and encountered yourself so much that you may have rebuilt a protective mechanism that you think you have left behind precisely because of that. You may start to realise more than ever that you have essentially found yourself the moment you thought you had lost yourself.
Besides the growth we have all experienced, yes all: both men and women, we have also retained beliefs based on disappointment and sadness. And that is very natural and human, but these beliefs do influence what we are willing to allow, especially when it involves a connection that transcends everything. The memories of how things have been are putting an unwanted stamp on what can come, and within this frequency in particular, the calling to open up now takes place. These beliefs are now being purified so that the core of what is real remains. We are awakening on a deeper level.
What would happen if you stopped holding yourself and the other person in the image created in the preliminary phase of attraction and repulsion? What if you were so close to yourself that whatever the other person seems to do or not do, you could immediately reconnect with your own energy, the energy of your passion and of what you so desperately want to achieve in your life, the energy of your creativity and conscious experience? The energy that lets you feel the love that is there for you, in and around you. This energy works magnetically and also invites the other person to open further to their truth. The truth you share.
But what if the other person no longer conveys all this and no longer puts down the behaviours you expect or shows a weak infusion of them, because it takes a while to get used to the new, more liberated self? What if the other person has become touched by that same piece of consciousness that has also descended into you? Outwardly, circumstances may appear to be unchanged, but inwardly there is much more going on, and everyone, including you, may take some time to get used to how different everything has in fact become. This phase gives you space to grapple with the old and the new, it gives you room to experience your doubt, to revisit your old pain, in order to slowly but surely come to the realisation that something is actually essentially different, even if you can't really name it and you hardly dare to believe it. You feel it, you feel the reality of your love growing, you feel it moving regardless of the stories that are still playing out individually, but may soon come to a beautiful conclusion. You feel the illusions crumbling. This is the stage when you can discern what is real and what is not.
It is the energy of love within you that leaves no room for doubt, because you know who you are, know who you are, regardless of the label, regardless of what others think of it. And it is particularly through the hard individual work you have done that the unhealthy attachment patterns have disappeared, loving is allowed and can be just that, without conditions, without demands, because you know that love brings everything together that is meant for each other.
Again, this destination will not be a final destination, as there will be room for the pooled energy of those who are true lovers of each other. The door to the next reality opens, even if it still seems closed. Knock on the door and be welcomed by the heaven that can manifest itself earthly through you. "