Let the shadow of your twin go? A new phase has begun, as the male component enters a new awareness. The female component is busy giving a place to everything that has happened, releasing a new amount of life energy. It is necessary for the female energy to become lighter by draining the residue of all that has been experienced, including the heaviness of feelings that previously could not be allowed and every piece of pain that has been touched to heal, from both the energetic and physical body. This creates space for a pure form of love and for the masculine component to connect with the aspects in himself that he has frenetically pushed away, because he lived by the expectations placed on him. Now he can safely detach himself from those expectations that he perpetuated in himself to feel worthy, and he can allow that part of himself that is vulnerable, and move into the space that he has kept out for so long: the space in which he is allowed to face his feelings unhindered, while ridding himself of the armour that kept him trapped in a role pattern that he himself suffered under. He no longer needs to protect himself, he is allowed to allow love because he knows that true love is not a prison, but rather a coming home.

It is a very fragile turn of events because it breaks former dynamics and role patterns that have been maintained for centuries. It happens instinctively, willpower is secondary to it, you cannot resist it. The separation between the two halves has led to a willingness to connect from the essence of being, because this is the only way to live in truth. It is impossible to keep denying yourself.

And whatever decision you may have made before and regardless of the reason why you made certain choices or took certain paths, don't make the mistake of thinking that this love and connection will ever disappear as a result, regardless of what you want or don't want with it, the connection remains and you will continue to have to deal with the inexplicable deep love that you feel for each other, regardless of the actions that emerged from personality and resistance to the connection.

It is important to realise that this the choice of your heart is where you initially unleash unconsciously learned patterns on it, which cannot actually be active in it, and project fears onto it that are not felt when love is given free rein and allowed to be seen for what it is: a connection that goes right past those patterns, so you don't have to be afraid of losing your freedom, or limitations in what you want to do, because the heart actually chooses from freedom and provides fulfilment. Resisting this is a waste of energy, to be afraid of loss is to create fear, and this will now become clear.

Let the phantom of your twin go... and by this is meant the story that has played out between you two so far, the betrayal of the self, through the veil of the heart and all that has resulted from this deception. The fight with each other, the attraction and repulsion, the dance between the personalities that continued until the mask self that was convulsively held high had to completely dissolve through the fire of this soul choreography where the truth of the heart has set the rhythm. Welcome to yourself!

© Maria Quesada