Unbelievable how many texts have already been devoted to the process of soul love we live through in relation to our essential other. By now, we have all experienced that this divine love that is so all-transcending and comparable to nothing, need not present itself or unfold as a divine earthly relationship at all. Indeed, often it is quite the opposite and, as a result, we encounter ourselves immensely because nothing seems to be able to be manifested that affirms this love.

It is as if your essential other, or perhaps you yourself, is not really choosing this and is not really present or wanting to be in the connection, except at times when the attraction is so irresistible. In fact, it often highlights the huge shadow parts, the fear of love, the actions and choices that are far from love because of the unhealed wounds that often affect us unconsciously, and the too-limited vision of who we are and how to hold our own so as not to get hurt. After all, we need to be able to survive in this world and to that end we have built an image that generally does a fine job for us.

At some point, you yourself cannot deny love or squander it where it is not honoured or shared as it is meant to be. This profound connection is not meant to be maintained secretly, it is not meant to harm others or yourself, it is not meant to be embarrassed, it is not meant to create emotional dependency. At some point, you can no longer fit in with the way your essential other handles this. The connection is meant to come to complete surrender of the most unconditional interaction possible with each other from the sole and exclusive intention that you freely want to share your love with the other, day after day. At some point you yourself want to be pure in love and you will distinguish where you do and do not want to go. Do you want that shadow woman/man remain and occasionally be fitted in when it doesn't interfere too much with another relationship being held? Do you want to settle for nothing, as long as you can maintain contact when it arises?
The beautiful thing is that you grow and expand in consciousness so enormously that you really can find at some point that you no longer feel that emotional dependency at all, that you can move on, that you are no longer waiting for your essential other and that no matter how impossible that seemed, you can be happy without it. It doesn't matter if you have already reached that point. It is important to know that no matter how hard it feels, no matter how intensely desperate you may feel within this process, this is the point you will reach! This is what you will grow towards sooner or later. A wisdom will fall to us from which we can draw fulfilment for the rest of our lives.

Personally, I have reached a point where I cannot compare myself to the person I was when I met my essential other and my heart burst open by recognising a connection that made me crave for more at that moment, crave that connection, crave that person and being together. Nothing else mattered. apparently, I myself needed to have gone through a certain part of the process first before I started focusing specifically on writing Dance of reunion. This book details in such detail what you go through when you meet your essential other and what the deeper meaning of that is, the how and why of the emotional rollercoaster that makes you think you have gone mad.

Later, I became the Twin Soul Whispers started writing, a day-to-day description of the process, and it has since become clear to me that these texts unfold beyond my emotional state of being, so that at most the typical complex sentence structure with endless subordinate clauses, so that sometimes you lose the common thread for a moment, is an indication of the filter influenced by my person. It is the writing style that comes to the fore when I tune into the energy of the soul-love process. But my personal emotional state, belief or conclusions I have drawn for my personal process, or even my own personal circumstances, is none of that. I continue until I feel I have been allowed to share everything I have to share. I have no idea how long that will be, but as soon as I notice that I no longer feel the inspiration for it then that is the ultimate sign that it has been good.