When love the cause of pain and sorrow seems to be, then you are surely dealing with an underlying theme that presents itself in disguise as the longing for the one who touched your heart so deeply. What lies underneath is now made very clear, no matter how much you convince or talk to yourself that everything is clear to you and you have dealt with your part. The turmoil now reigns for a reason!

Despite the repetition of similar experiences and the disillusions they resulted in, you can now break through what the trend to date has been. The impossibility you face in fulfilling this desire for ultimate love by repeating the same patterns that immerse you in a sense of despair and heartbreak tries to support you to make the connection between your mind and heart.

Apart from the awareness that outside the physical you are really already unified, you are not functioning to your full potential. Awareness of an interplay between the physical and non-physical world is necessary to really feel through and experience what otherwise would only be limited to a theory you keep mentally reciting, "You can find everything in yourself and you should also provide yourself with this love". Do you really feel this way or are you balking because you don't yet know how to reach this point in yourself?

Remember that you are on your way by living through the process of love that gives short shrift to the romantic images and beliefs that keep you trapped in a state that takes you out of your own power. Thus, you are given the lid time and again when you outsource too much of your own energy to others, making the other the priority of your own life, where you should be number one. Life helps you to remove the imbalance in your basis, for it truly belongs to the divine plan that you can share your beautiful energy to the fullest with someone who will reflect this love you breathe yourself in a pure and equal way. Therefore, allow everyone their own development and do not feel rejected when the point of turning around has not yet been reached.